Renowned comedian and filmmaker Ayodeji Makun, popularly known as AY Comedian, has addressed the backlash following his recent comments about the lack of support from male colleagues for his latest movie, The Waiter.
In a detailed response, AY clarified that his statement was not intended to undermine the achievements of women in the entertainment industry, whom he noted have always enjoyed his unwavering support. Instead, he focused on the need for greater camaraderie and backing among male colleagues.
Expressing his frustration, AY highlighted instances where actors promoted other films while neglecting his project, even when contractual agreements were in place.
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“Do you know how frustrating it is to pay actors who end up promoting other films and abandoning the one that they are in… EVEN with signed contracts?” he wrote.
AY stressed that asking for help from peers should be regarded as a strength rather than a weakness. He emphasized the societal pressures on men to appear stoic, arguing that such a mindset prevents them from expressing vulnerabilities, ultimately affecting their mental and emotional well-being.
He called for a change in this narrative, stating, “Being quiet as men when we face challenges and struggles is the reason why many of us die before our time.
If I say to you that I have a good film that demands the support of my fellow men, kindly join me in fostering an environment where I can feel empowered to share my vulnerabilities, fears, and challenges.”
AY also cited his rekindled friendship with fellow comedian Basketmouth as an example of the kind of mutual support men should cultivate.
He urged men to support one another with the same energy they extend toward supporting women, promoting what he termed a “brotherhood that uplifts everyone.”
He wrote: “The women in the business are my friends, and nothing has changed. Asking for help from my colleagues directly or indirectly should be seen as strength, not a weakness.
“Together, we can redefine what it means to be strong and create a community where every man feels valued and heard.”
